Recently, moving back in with parents has become more common than ever. While some adults return home to support aging parents or get help with childcare, many are simply making smart financial choices—trading independence for savings, convenience, and a stronger support system. In fact, multigenerational living isn’t new. Across cultures and countries, it’s a long-standing norm. And today, whether driven by rising housing costs or the desire to stay close to family, more people are rediscovering the benefits of sharing a home with parents and relatives. If you're thinking about moving back in with family—or welcoming someone into your home—here’s how to make the transition smoother for everyone involved.

1. Plan Before You Pack
Before making the move, it’s crucial to have an open conversation. Is the move temporary or indefinite? Are you moving into a home someone already lives in, or will everyone relocate to a new place together?
If you’re searching for a new space as a family, consider how the layout will serve everyone’s needs. Will you co-sign a lease or mortgage? Will responsibilities be shared equally? Make sure everyone understands the expectations, and write down key decisions to avoid confusion later on.

2. Define Living Arrangements Early
It’s important to sort out who’s sleeping where and what spaces are shared. If the house allows, consider carving out semi-private living zones—think in-law suites, basement apartments, or even minor upgrades like a kitchenette or private entrance.
Even in tight quarters, having some personal space can make all the difference. If renovations are needed, discuss who will cover the cost and whether the investment makes sense for the length of your stay.

3. Set Expectations to Avoid Tension
Living together doesn’t mean you need to spend all your time together. Establish boundaries around privacy, quiet time, and routines. For example, who’s expected at family dinner? What’s the rule for guests or overnight visitors? Is there a curfew or alarm schedule?
Clear, respectful communication can prevent misunderstandings before they happen. Set expectations early and revisit them regularly to adjust as needed.